get off your BUT.

I am reading this inspirational book called “Get off your BUT” and it basically addresses ways to stop saying “I want to do X… BUT” with an excuse, fear, or reason behind why you won’t ever end up doing this thing. Well, I’ve been wanting to launch my YouTube channel for way too long, and this book was my launching pad. Matt works as a…

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My 28th Birthday!

hello 28th year of being alive! I celebrated all weekend with friends – on saturday we ran a color run 5K and then watched Thao with the get down stay down in prospect park. Sunday we had a BBQ at our apartment, and of course there was a fudgie the whale cake… because it isn’t a birthday party without one! I still cannot believe I…

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Birthday feelings & the best romper I’ve ever owned…

There’s only 3 days left in my life as a 27-year-old and I must admit, these late twenties are MUCH easier than the early twenties, but also (in my opinion) much more strategic. my dad told me this year on his birthday that being in your 50’s feels like the 2nd half of a run. The first half is tough, and you try to find…

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Marthas Vineyard Photo Diary Pt. 2

Hi there! I am back in my home, getting ready to go back to work tomorrow! My grandma used to say “nice to go away, nice to come home” and it really is true. It feels good to be in my bed, and I am actually excited to see my work friends tomorrow, and catch up! I am lucky to feel that way – I…

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Marthas Vineyard Photo Diary Pt. 1

There is no question that life passes by quickly, but vacation is on fast forward! It feels like we just arrived, and we’re already heading home tomorrow. Oh how the passage of time is so bittersweet! Here’s some snapshots from the past few days… if you’re heading out to Martha’s Vineyard, two places to definitely check out are… 1. Lucky Hanks – the garden is…

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The Journey To Marthas Vineyard…

There’s only two ways to snake your way onto this island… 1. fly 2. take a ferry we left our home at 6:30am, and made it onto the ferry by noon! It’s an easy journey from NY, and a wonderful weekend getaway! Have a Happy 4th of July Aeropostale cropped top Missguided skirt…

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Cactus Skirt in Bushwick

July 4th weekend has a feeling – the air is crisp and warm, american flags are prominent, the skies are blue and the days are beautifully long and filled with the smell of BBQ, sun tan lotion and insect repellent. MMMM, all my favorite smells. We’re off on our annual Marthas Vineyard family trip for the holiday, and I cannot WAIT for this vacation –…

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A Soho Evening on a Weeknight ♥

Yesterday Matt and I went into the city for the Uno de 50 event in Soho. It was literally a PERFECT evening, so beautiful outside and the event was on the most quaint block. I am like a kid in the candy store when I step foot into the city… living 50 minutes outside of it has helped me to avoid becoming jaded. The event…

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summer uniform.

and just like THAT it is in the 90’s, and it becomes oh so clear why i left Miami! 🙂 it is really hard to be cute in the heat! I think I’ve finally found my summer uniform… breathable tees paired with high waisted denim shorts. Maybe it isn’t groundbreaking, but some days when you just want to throw on something but still look cute,…

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A Day in Brooklyn

There is nowhere else I would rather be than in Brooklyn on a sunny day with miss claude! Sadly, this weekend is a rainy one but two of my best friends are visiting and I am off to NYC now! what are you guys up to? Xo Missguided dress ASOS bag Vintage headband Vintage shoes Ray Ban sunnies…

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florals and hearts.

I’ve been living in these glasses because tbh the computer in my eyes all day is taking its toll on me! It has been raining every day since this one, and it sounds so soothing out my window. It makes me want to blast Elliott Smith and Nick Drake all day, curl up in bed, and watch Orange is The New Black.. and that is…

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pink duster.

This week has been extremely exciting, because I’ve been attending a social media summit in the city! It feels so great drinking a coffee on the train, and seeing the skyline appear as the train pulls into Penn Station. I know i see the world through “Steffy Vision” with an emphasis on the MAGIC and the SWEETS and the pretty COLORS, but the luster of…

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pineapples & polka dots.

longer length skirts have been my go-to lately because of the incessant wind near my house. it’s tough to wear hats and mini-skirts, my usuals staples! it has been a crazy few weeks, and i’ve gotta say being this age is WILD. between engagements, weddings and pregnancy announcements, it feels like grasping new realities is an everyday norm. i don’t know why, but to picture…

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“you look like T. Swift”

I hear this usually once a day, especially with the red lip. Little girls gasp sometimes and then look sad when they realize I’m steffy. EVEN 55-year-old kitchen installers mention it. I truly do not see it, guys!! But hey, it isn’t too shabby of a person to be confused as, I guess. Anyway, I wore this to shop for flowers and get coffee! I…

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mint tint.

Ohhhhh the feeling of summer. This weekend we finally finished decorating our deck, and grilled saturday and sunday. the smell of grilled food is a new level of amazing! It has been so great to just let me hair get frizzy and soak in the beachy vibes of long beach. i EVEN DRANK MY FIRST PINA COLADA IN YEARS this weekend. it makes me want…

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Watermelon Dress

Something i’ve learned about clothes, especially recently, is that it is OKAY to repeat. I used to have this feeling like i needed new cute exciting things all the time to stay relevant, but in reality it’s a wonderful feeling to find things you love enough to rewear over and over again. It is even better when you pull your summer clothing out of storage…

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Memorial Day Weekend

Oh how lovely 3-day weekends are. AND it is officially “summer” up here, according to vacation rentals and such! We drove two hours upstate, and spent time around Woodstock, New Paltz, Beacon and all of my favorite towns to visit and antique in. It’s incredible how close you can find such a different world in NY… it feels like the quiet life upstate, and it…

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Gingham.

This weather has been something else – 60s and 70s every day, perfect walking around the neighborhood weather, sunny skies. I live in a perfect spot to walk around now, and there’s a farmers market every Saturday that Matt and I pass through! I wore this to grab some coffee, and pick up some fresh veggies 🙂 I’ve been watching Mad Men non-stop, and am…

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I’ve gotta brand new pair of rollerskates, you got a brand new key

I thrifted this lovely mustard yellow turtleneck years ago, and cut it into a cropped top. I didn’t realize then just how much of a staple it would become, but i’ve worn it time and time again, including here, here and here! that’s one of my favorite things about clothing – you never know just HOW sentimental a top or a bag may become, or…

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CAT-er-alls.

There’s this weird thing that happens when you’re a blogger… you start to think of your outfits as either “blogworthy” or “normal.” Sometimes when I put on a pair of jeans, or overalls with a plain t-shirt, i think WOW i look so so normal, like i’m unworthy of being a fashion blogger, and that pushes me to spice it up. Like if one of…

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